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Posts by Lhamo

Give me something more powerful than your anger

By Lhamo

Yes. I’m talking to you. The husband of my sister, my client, the partner of my best friend… The men…

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Don’t judge her for being the darkness you don’t want to feel

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I know she gets wild. Sometimes that streak of strength you love in her turns rancid and her truth mixed…

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Men, find your own edge before you break hers

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Hey beautiful man – my boss, my son, my lover, my student, my peer – I am NOT the edge…

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Angry women won’t heal the world. Fierce women will.

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The Shadow of Denial

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Talk to me about denial. What stops you from refusing to look at the story or situation bigger than the…

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Sacred Warriorship : Returning to Soul

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Sometimes it’s wonderful being an empath. I remember when walking the Camino with Pete, there were days when our feet…

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A long weekend with Innana.
Dying. Burying your old self. Wisely Resurrecting.

By Lhamo

I’ve been thinking all about Death. Burial. Resurrection. Oh, just to clarify, no not of Jesus, but the Goddess Inanna.…

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Dancing in the ShadowLands : The Gremlin of Isolation

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  As you all know, very real circumstances create isolation. Relocation, a new baby, quarantine, divorce, or living in a…

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How do you honour your Ancestors without
cultural appropriation?

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How do you honour your ancestors in your women’s circles? Do you call their heartbeat through your medicine drum? If…

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5 Practices to Connect to Your Divine Feminine

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5 PRACTICES TO CONNECT TO YOUR DIVINE FEMININE

Connecting to your Divine Feminine is not always acknowledged part of mundane life, in fact, theevery day, especially in our…

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About Lhamo

 

Lhamo is an Interfaith Reverend ordained in the Interfaith Temple in New York.  A mother of two wonderfully free willed children, a loving step mother to two young adults and wife to her Beloved Peter. Full of love, warmth, character and womanly abundance, Lhamo supports women called to carry out the real work of the Sacred Feminine, during the most demanding, transformative years of their lives.

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There are the 3 big obstacles that stop midlife wo There are the 3 big obstacles that stop midlife women from nestling into a daily spiritual practice :-1. No time 2. No space 3. No ideaAll of them are illusions, but they feel like pretty solid realities for most of us.Today I'm going to bust the illusion of no time.Of course, you have time for 7 minutes of prayer, peace and breathing. You're on Facebook, aren't you? Seriously, have you checked your time usage lately?It's not that you don't have the time, its that you don't make the time. I'm right aren't I?In the words of Medieval mystic Teresa of Avila, that's where the reptiles get you. The sneaky gremlins that tell you that you cant connect to the love that's inside you.It's not about time. It's more about your commitment to suffering and worthlessness. You are worth it. We all are. We are all addicted to struggle until we shift it out of our lives.Yes, it's possible to have your connection to the Divine as the biggest joy-creating desire you have as soon as you wake in the morning. I know because I've seen hundreds of women learn how to do this.The solution is simple. Before you open your eyes. Before any cold-footed cuddle monster asks if you are awake before you bounce out of bed (ok, that's not real), before you stagger to the loo to help someone pee, you ~❤️ Make your first thought a prayer, and you connect your heart space to the Divine and devote your day to being an instrument of Good (of Love, or God, or Great Spirit - whatever works really) <3Try it. No one can do this for you and you'll probably start it and stop it for a while until you strengthen your spiritual muscle of remembering.We will tackle the tricky 'no space' issue tomorrow.With love, Lhamo x ❤️ x#homecomingtosoul #spiritualawakening #spiritualpractice #mysticism #interiorcastle #meditationpractice #soulwork #ministryofshe
How do you start your daily spiritual practice? D How do you start your daily spiritual practice? Do you gracefully rise full of spiritual devotion, waft to your meditation altar and sink into transcendental repose? Or is it a mixed bag of boot camp discipline mixed with meditation space remorse? Don't laugh. For most of the midlife mama's, I know their meditation space is the first thing buried under their I'll-get-around-to-its. That shrine of I-dont-have-space-for-me, buried under washing, mending, lost craft projects and photobook intentions, then becomes a memorial to lost possibilities ... ... ... If I could just meditate and clear my mind ... ... If I could just quieten these voices in my head ... ... If I could just find my way home to something meaningful inside me and work out who I've become ... Over the next week, I will share the solutions I have found that has worked my spiritual practice into every nook and cranky (that was intentional) of my life. Why listen to me? No reason, really. I've been a seeker, a teacher and a Minister, respectively, for a decade, 2 decades and 37 years. Spiritual work is my job, for real. I didn't have a career in the corporate world before this. It's always been my calling. But mainly, mostly by providence, you can lean in a little here because I am a mystic. More by grace than anything, I've been given the stewardship of truly beautiful things. Bodies of wisdom, teachings and practices that fill lives with meaning. I'd love to support you ❤ It is possible to weave your own spirit-guided practice into an art form that fills your everyday with meaning. No matter how busy, chaotic and crazy. Let me show you ... This is my currently unburied meditation chair. More tomorrow xx Lhamo x ❤ x #homecomingtosoul #spiritualawakening #spiritualpractice #mysticism #interiorcastle #meditationpractice #soulwork #ministryofshe
Slow and Sacred and a little less cheese, oh and m Slow and Sacred and a little less cheese, oh and more collagen AND no more new courses...That was my 2022 Summer Solstice intention for 2023, and so far, we've been successful, mostly - I'm less than a week away from launching not one but THREE brand new offerings for mothers and daughters.But they're not really new. They are part of the trove of maps, guides, heart callings and downloads from the last ten years. A decade of stumbling in the dark, following the light, beating a path and carving out sense and meaning. Deep, soul-reviving meaning.I don't know anyone who has foraged in the dark that calls their spirit-led path 'full of love and light'. Mine certainly wasn't. As soon as I became accustomed to the dark, shocking blasts of Light would come, and I would see the reality of the mess I was stumbling in.Which of course, led to more cleaning, tweaking, stumbling, eventually understanding and growing.Somehow a little Hansel and Gretel-like, the little seeds that were once tears or fears or mostly frustration, would turn into a course or a folder or, more recently, an online platform.But honestly, in the past ten years, I've moved so fast (raising teenagers does that) that many of the maps have been left discarded. Not because they weren't useful, there wasn't enough of me left.Last year changed that. Creating Guardians men's program was an evolution of soul. It was a tempering like none I've experienced.Each month was an initiation to pull the wisdom I was teaching - out of my bones. Literally, I've just found out I have bone loss in my jaw. That, coupled with teenage depression, made life well; it made me commit to making this year a slow and savouring type of year.A wise woman in my world said that a necessary part of creating sacred works is the crafting, the holding and then -the releasing - of them into the world. That's my aim."To scatter seeds to create soul gardens that I'll never see" ...I'm starting our online year with Homecoming, a 7-day dive into medieval mysticism, juicy sacred masculine & feminine healing and a few MotherQuest basics thrown in. Link 👆It will reboot or start your daily practice!Much love, Lhamo ❤️
Reminding everyone that our second instalment of S Reminding everyone that our second instalment of Soul Replenishing wisdom and mysticism starts tonight at 7 pm AEST. See you then, Lhamo x ❤ x
❤️ 3 SUNDAY EVENINGS OF RENEWAL ❤️It's b ❤️ 3 SUNDAY EVENINGS OF RENEWAL ❤️It's been a big year. Now that the projects are finished, the year's tasks are completed, and the revolution has begun, I've found the space again to listen to Her within me.Touching the deep water of Spirit has as always left me yearning.To feel Him again. To know Her again. To know God, in union as the Beloved within. It always amazes me how quickly drinking from this sacredness heals everything.Join me for an hour on zoom for three Sunday evenings as we 'go back to church' in our loungerooms.I will wrap you in the beauty of mystical poetry, wash you in prayer and meditation and feed you with teachings from the Gospel of the Divine Beloved and The Dark Night of the Soul.Join Sunday 4th December 7pm (QLD) ~ https://bit.ly/S0ulDr1nkJoin all 3 evenings (4th, 11th, 18th) ~ https://bit.ly/3SoulSund4ys❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸❤️🌸
After ten months of relentless inner awakening, ou After ten months of relentless inner awakening, our GUARDIANS have returned. You are now invited to witness their graduation.Join us on Saturday, 10th December, to witness your men speak their Honour Codes and share their experiences.This has not been an easy Rite. No mid-life journey with the radical honesty of the Sacred feminine is.They have faced their shadows, unhooked from derisive patterns and reclaimed the innocence of their sacred masculine soul. They have been challenged and they were tested."At midlife, a man’s soul is called into Union. Not with his lover, not with his achievements, not with his goals but into union with His Authentic Self."Come and witness each man as he proclaims his passion, his unguarded heart and his sacred values.Get ready to be inspired. This is the return we have been waiting for. Public tickets for adults only : //bit.ly/GuardianGrADu8Palm Beach, Qld, Saturday 10th December 4 - 8 pm [Qld time]#MinistryofShe #SacredFeminine #Guardians #GuardiansInitiation #SacredMensWork #SacredMasculine #MidlifeMen #RiteofPassage #GoldCoastMensWork #GuardiansMensRevolution
THIS SATURDAY 19th NOVEMBER | PALM BEACH QLD Has y THIS SATURDAY 19th NOVEMBER | PALM BEACH QLD Has your heart heard the desire for community ceremony? Have you had a rough year and are looking for a healing balm for your soul? Do you need to establish your faith in the goodness of humanity? Or do you have ancient wounds that can not be healed until they are seen and held in authentic community? In an evening to remember we will dive into the sacred resources already inside you : 💛 Your inner Bodhicitta : your inner wisdom and infinite compassion 💛 Radical Forgiveness : To transform & dissolve all past hurt 💛 Inner Union : To return to the sacred balance and love of your inner masculine and feminine Come with your partner or friend, or come along on your own and experience the beauty of non denominational (interfaith) ceremony. This is open to all men and women aged 18+ Inspired by sacred indigenous ceremonies, Colin Tipping developed Radical Forgiveness work in the 1990s. Now combining his work, Buddist Tonglen Practice and Sacred Feminine Ceremony, Interfaith Minister Lhamo is giving you to chance to transform your heart and restore the love that only sacred witnessing can bring. There are 4 places left. To read more or book click here. https://guardiansmensrevolution.com/.../radical.../ Love Lhamo x ❤️ x #radicalforgiveness #SacredUnion #GuardiansMensRevolution #MinistryofShe #Interfaith #sacredfeminine #Compassion #womenwisdom #sacredwitnessing
SAVE THE DATE or better still, book in!On the ev SAVE THE DATE or better still, book in!On the evening of the 19th November, I will be holding a Radical Forgiveness Ceremony for men, women and couples.Ive called it an evening of Sacred Union, because well, that's what it is, but also because social media (faceplant) has an issue with the word 'Rad.i.cal' ... omg.Any way 🙂 - keep reading to discover more about this incredible process ❤️ -------------------------------------Hurts happen.Then time goes by and layers of misunderstanding become trapped between words that weren’t spoken and heartache that wasn’t seen.To heal, we need to release the past. But before that, sings Goddess Sinead, "There has to be remembering and then grieving, there has to be knowledge and understanding.”Our Radical Forgiveness Ceremony offers all of these things. Join Lhamo for an evening where you can release the past, unshackle from shame, lay down your weapons of revenge, anger and numb indifference and restore your heart to innocence.Conducted predominately in silence, this sacred ceremony takes the practice of Sacred Witnessing to a profound new level, where personal, relational and community atonement and restitution is made possible.Allow your heart to see and be seen while experiencing the transformational power of radical forgiveness in action.Open to men and women, this ceremony has space for 30 individuals, with priority given to current participants of the Guardians and their partners. Spaces are limited.Couples price $355 : bit.ly/RadF0rgiveness Singles price $195 : https://bit.ly/RadF0rgiveMe6.15pm arrival for start at 6.30pm – 9.30 pm Space Ten Hall, Palm Beach Qld. Australia#RadicalForgiveness #SacredMen #SacredWomen #Forgiveness #CommunityHealing #ceremony #Ministryofshe #SacredUnion
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