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n. The unbroken love, power and wisdom of your maternal lineage

For daughters ready to heal and restore love, connection & wisdom
to their maternal relationships



During this seven-stage journey, you receive the sacred and practical tools you need to heal your past, radically shift your current relationships AND
positively affect the next seven generations.


Many women speak of connecting to the Divine Feminine, yet aren’t sure how to navigate the stormy waters of their own mother-daughter relationships. Spirituality and personal growth are fine as long as we don't mention your family.If you are ready to finally experience peace in your maternal relationships and unlock your own beautiful gifts …Then Ancestresscy is your key.This training is both mystical and practical; it combines real-life psycho-therapeutic skills with transformational ritual and sacred ceremony. It is a mystical transmission of ancestral healing made for our times.And it’s not just for you.When you heal your family patterns you not only change future generations, you transform the future for the collective as well.  Let’s heal our HerStories, together.

Heal your MotherLine and Transform your Inherited Destiny. Join today.


In the Ancestresscy Course you will:


Transform your Relationship with Your Mother

Does it feel like no matter how much you have grown and changed as an adult, whenever you are around your mother or family you suddenly become the same child you have been trying to heal?

Are you ready to stop the pain that sits right next to your deepest wish to feel close to and nurtured your mother?

In Ancestresscy you will:

  • Discover simple transformative tools to change the way you react and communicate with each other
  • Without conflict resolve your hurts and open to new paradigms of mothering love
  • Find the tools to have lasting peace with your mother

Recover Your Sense of Maternal Belonging

No matter the current state of your mother-daughter relationship, or if your mother is permanently estranged or has died, it is possible to live with a deep inner knowing of love, connection and maternal support.

On the level of soul, all relationships operate from Love. However, personality, life's circumstances and choices can block this flow and irreparably lock us into painful patterns.

In Ancestresscy you will learn how to connect to the belonging that is your birthright and open to the maternal wisdom you carry within your blood and bones.

In Ancestresscy you will:

  • Explore & heal 7 generations of your maternal lineage
  • Connect to a tangible knowing of your Ancestressal strength
  • Discover a grounded belonging to the people of your tribe & culture

Be the Strong Woman who Breaks the Pain

Every generation is faced with the opportunity and the challenge to heal the patterns of their ancestors, have peace with their parents and share their unique gifts with the world. In our time we are called to heal and remember all who have gone before.

In Ancestresscy you will explore and extract the toxic family patterns caused by untimely loss, secrets, abuse and trauma.

You will also find the courage to actualise your authentic potential and BE the woman of your lineage that makes the difference.

In Ancestresscy you will:

  •  Replace toxic patterns with strength, autonomy and freedom
  •  Release the blockages that inhibit connection and belonging
  •  Recover your innocence as a source of creative power

Shift from Wounded Daughter to Beloved Child

Many dysfunctional mother/adult-daughter relationships boil down to a few tender but simple issues, the main one being that the daughter usually feels like the parent.

Do you feel like the smart, strong, kind, older, bigger person in your mother-daughter relationship? Does this make you feel tired, depressed, persnippity or intolerant when around your mother?

Are you frightened of becoming the same type of parent your mother was? Or are you overcompensating by giving your children the type of parenting you needed, but not necessarily the parenting they uniquely require?

In Ancestresscy you will:

  • Learn how to move your perspective from wounded daughter to beloved child
  • Hand back your maternal wounding and all that is not yours to carry
  • Elevate your mother-daughter struggle to a Sacred Wrestle of Self-awareness and Autonomy

Open to the Joy of Maternal Connection

Our relationships with our mothers lay the templates of how we relate with all women, for better and for worse. Do you trust yourself to be authentic and vulnerable with your sisters and girlfriends? Can you be authentically open and non-judgemental of women who are unlike you?

Does the concept of sisterhood seem foreign, unobtainable or unnecessary to you? Do you believe that jealousy, competition and betrayal are to be expected in female friendships? Would you rather be one of the boys?

In Ancestresscy you will:

  • Come to embrace that women friends are the essential component for living a richly intimate and empowered life
  • Release the blockages that inhibit your connection and trust in the Feminine
  • Heal your half of your mother-daughter wrestle and in doing so, open yourself to lasting depth, trust and fulfilment within all your relationships

Explore and Heal 7 Generations

In Indigenous and First Nation Spirituality, every child born is the gift and the healing of the seven previous and seven future generations.

Over seven weeks you will not only transform your relationship patterns with your birth mother and siblings, you will also clear how your bloodlines' future generations carry the patterns of your past, present and future

In Ancestresscy you will:

  • Resolve the silent pains you carry, especially the tender wounds of reproductive loss, sexual trauma and grief
  • Open your spirituality and soul to a deep relationship with the spiritual force of the Sacred Mother
  • Actualise your potential and let your soul, not your inherited wounding, define who you are as a woman, lover and mother of your world

"Through my teenage years, I was given the vision of a chain link being broken and I understood intuitively that there was a responsibility to take up the work of breaking the cycle. I have often questioned and studied my paternal relationship but with the maternal I have assumed and battled rather than questioned or explored.

Finding Ancestresscy was like finding a place where I could further delve into this journey. I would not have known where or how to start as there is no guide in my family. I am so grateful for what has been made available and shared through Ancestresscy.

Thank you Lhamo, you held and guided us as we navigated through our personal journeys in a way that was loving, supportive and nurturing. Ancestresscy has given me the tools to discover and explore generational histories that repeat bringing greater awareness to my own present beliefs, choices and behaviour. Lhamo your insight and compassion were greater than I could have imagined."

Angelina 42


Join now and start your sacred work


Join us! Peace, healing, belonging and freedom are waiting for you.

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"From the first moment I met Lhamo, I recognized her as a profound teacher.  Ancestresscy captured me the instant I heard about this course.  My mother and grandmothers were battered women who had lost their voices – and likely so too the grandmothers who came before them.  I was determined to break the cycle and I did, but my body (and mind) still carried the burden.

If you can Go! Go sit with Lhamo – if you dare. You can’t hide in her presence – but you can’t let go what you don’t know you are holding. If you truly seek growth and wisdom, she will show you it is already within you. Lhamo is one of the most authentic Wise Women I know.  She is alive in the most beautiful of ways – I see her committed to loving to learn and learning to love, with authenticity and integrity."

Janine aged 55


Where Did


come from?

While the blueprint of the course was channelled by Lhamo a week before birthing her daughter 12 years ago, Ancestresscy also draws on Lhamo’s extensive training in Family Constellations, Women's Counselling and Epigenetics Theory.

When Lhamo speaks about the course being 'gifted' to her, this means that the transmission of knowledge was mystical and was not conceived by her thinking.

A decade on from Lhamo’s original gnosis, science is now validating the understanding of ancestral transmission and healing familial trauma. As an Interfaith Minister, Priestess and Spiritual Counsellor, Lhamo has helped hundreds of women compassionately transform their MotherLines to become the Strong Women their family and the world needs.

This course is not only about healing mother-daughter relationships; this work transforms your destiny. It enables you to be the authentic woman your soul chose your family to be.

Read more about How Ancestresscy was Created here.

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A Sneaky Peek

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Module One: Reclamation

According to A Course in Miracles there is only ever one wound and to start our sacred work we go straight to the Source. In a powerful ceremony we start The Work of reclaiming your Ancestresscy.

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Module Two: Inheritance

In this module, we bravely go to the unexpected origin of most inherited trauma. With an insightful meditation, restorative exercises and a mystical tool or two this week we will go home to the ancestressal Earth within you. This week we release the trauma that never belonged to us. We set ourselves free.

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Module Three: Mother Wisdom

We now move from the transpersonal into the personal and begin to unlock the herstories of our grandmothers. In this module will learn how as women born women, we really do carry our Mother Wisdom within us.  Explore who you could be if all body issues, sexual shame, birth trauma and self-judgement was cleared from your maternal line.

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Module Four: Maternal Healing

This week we touch the heart of our course and our deepest material. This week we open to innocence, our own, our mothers and all women of our maternal bloodline. We confidently dive into the essential work that all daughters must do before forgiveness and healing are ever possible. We learn the keys to soul peace with our mothers.

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Module Five: Beloved Daughter

Now we turn to our self and ask if, as the Light Keeper or Black Sheep of our family, have we completed the sacred contracts of our soul? Have we Done The Work to become Beloved Daughter of our parents and Sacred Sister to our siblings? This week we expereince a powerful healing ritual to make sure we be who we came here to be.

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Module Six: Creative Conception

This week we enter the realms of our children, human, creative or animal and we look deeply at the role of mother and our relationship to all our creative conceptions. This is a particularly healing and sacred week for women who have experienced pregnancy loss.

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Module Seven: Blessing

This week to help us celebrate the conclusion and beginning of our Sacred Journey we look to the future and own our role as strong Woman, Caretaker of Seven Generations. This week we prepare our blessing and start the sacred activism required to create a legacy of love.

Enrollments close saturday 4th May

How Ancestresscy is delivered


  • Lifetime access to a beautiful online membership site
  • 7 weekly PDF workbooks & Mp3 downloads
  • 5 Sacred Circle Zoom Calls
  • Meditations & Sacred Ceremony Rituals
  • Private Facebook Sanctuary
  • Powerful, gentle & grounding processes

"I loved doing this course alongside a group of women. I have done so much inner work alone and in silence, which I'm quite good at. It's showing myself fully which I find most challenging so this was a great learning for me, in overcoming some of that fear. Having such a loving, safe space I felt deeply held, heard and seen/witnessed, sharing the tender, the joyful and REAL unfolding together for me was very healing. Being able to navigate at our own pace and readiness was also so respected and I never felt pushed, guilty or left behind which was important to me, and although the circle was via zoom and not in person, Lhamo weaves this so beautifully it felt so cozy, scared and safe."

Anna 34

"The zoom calls were such a great idea and I was so excited that I could connect with others all across Australia. The meditations and reflective communication through group zoom calls were my favourites. The impact of the meditations was unexpected, they were transportive and very healing.

Angelina 42


How you are supported on your journey?

For ten years Lhamo delivered Ancestresscy orally, only using notes as diagrams and worksheets. Now for the first time, the entire course is presented in written and audio material. However this work remains a transmission, so with every course round, the content deepens and adapts to make it specific to the women gathered to journey together.

In this round of Ancestresscy participants are invited to join the private Facebook Sanctuary (where Lhamo is in attendance every day) and also attend 5 Sacred Circle Zoom Calls plus a webinar. These are live opportunities to have your questions answered and for you to receive the material directly. There is nothing fluffy about Lhamo's mysticism. This work can be like laser surgery and compassionately, as a Minister, Lhamo is sincerely committed to your care.


When you purchase the online program, you receive:

  • Layers of digestible and useful information, worksheets and ceremonial guides
  • Simple yet precise tools for you to use for the rest of your lifetime
  • Booklist and references for you to continue your work beyond the course
  • Material-specific for adult mother-daughter relationships and mother-child relationships as well
  • Tools to clear and finalise damaged bonds with siblings 
  • Living antidotes to isolation and disconnection
  • An awakening of your soul calling and purpose free of your Ancestral Karma

Are you ready to end the patterns of pain in your family

Imagine how priceless knowing this could be.


"Do it! Ancestresscy is a transformative journey, its only seven weeks but it is so deeply profound that the shifts I experienced far superseded the time it took to do the course! It has accelerated my soul growth, cleared so much old energy passed down through generations that has not been able to be cleared until this opportunity and it’s been profoundly transformational. It’s an invitation to step up to the responsibility of healing your precious MotherLine so you and future generations can express more of who you truly are and live a more expansive life as a result.

How richly rewarding is that? It’s priceless."

Kathryn 37


VIP Extra nurturing and support option

For many women, the struggle for acceptance, nurturing and peace within their mother's comes with such yearning and pain that it often feels unbearable.

As a consequence decades pass with women travelling through their life passages from maiden into a woman in love, a married woman into motherhood and motherhood into midlife with gaping holes, wounds and layers of hurt that are coped with by either swinging into complete disconnection and no relationship, to craving for a nurturing connection and reliving the hurts that never seem to heal.

If this is you and you know it IS THE TIME to heal but you need extra support, then our VIP option is for you.

In our VIP option, you will receive :

  • The same magnificent Ancestressy course materials
  • 3 x 60 minute highly personal 1:1 Zoom sessions with Lhamo
  • Email support
  • Bonus materials

Strictly Limited Places Available. Investment $900

I am so ready to receive this support

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"I first met Lhamo when I did the first online version of Ancestresscy in 2016. I have been to many counsellors and psychotherapists in my quest to be a better me. I could not believe the immediate shift I made after a 1:1 session with Lhamo. The peace I found and the calm that came over me was obvious, I arrived home and my husband said "Wow what happened to you? You're so different! I love it!" 

I can now talk about my mother and hear about her without feeling pain or getting locked into my anger. This is very different for me. From this place, I have reached out to my sisters and daughters and have realised my journey continues but I know what and how to proceed so everything is ok. I know I'm in a good place journeying to me for me."

Di aged 52

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"What an amazing gift this course was for me. It helped me find my place within my maternal family, healed wounds in my relationship with my mother and gifted me with a family connection I had longed for. Six years on from sitting in circle with this work, the tools and learning I received are now well integrated into my life, giving me a deeper richness and ease with all my family relationships.

I feel very blessed to have come across Lhamo and her life-changing insight."

Kylie aged 44


A final message :

It's time in our history for women to awaken our herstories and realise that our painful mother-daughter relationships are caused by much bigger issues than we think.

It's not you or your mother.

It's not a wound either.

Healing your MotherLine and reclaiming your Ancestresscy is The Sacred Work
of women alive in this radically transformative time.

This course is not a map but a spiral of discovery. It was gifted to me by my Ancestresses as a way to heal seven generations forwards and backwards in time.

Now with love and reverence, it is a gift from my healed motherline, to yours. Through this course, you too can reclaim and live in the strength of knowing your Ancestresscy.

It's time. I hope you will join me.

Lhamo xx


This course truly is a Sacred Blueprint
that can heal your mother-daughter relationships
and your maternal lineage.

Which means you could finally have found the way for you to hold your authentic self within your family and be the wise guide and healer for your family that everyone else knows you to be.



Could this be the year that you become the healer for your community?

In 2019 Lhamo is offering Certified Teacher Training for women ready to bring Ancestressy into their sacred work and communities. Now is the best time to start this journey, as this course is the prerequisite of the Ancestressy Teacher Training. For more info click here.