Posts by Lhamo
Martyrdom, MotherLines and Money Blocks
After twelve years of working with women and their mother-daughter relationships, I’ve realised there are not too many of us who, at some time, haven’t labelled their mother a martyr. Without perhaps knowing the larger why, we do know how, and exactly when, our mothers sacrificed themselves or manipulated their suffering, to get needs met.…
Read MoreMotherQuest : The Soul Landscape of Fearless Aliveness
You have just stepped into the sacred soul landscape of endings and beginnings; your soul is now ready to show you that a new cycle is about to start. Arriving here means you have just crossed a precipice. It is time you let go of your need for control and instead open to your soul…
Read MoreMotherQuest : The Soul Landscape of Mothering Presence
In between the stretch and demands of Mothering your world, there is the gift of this present moment. In between the tug of war demands of tantrums and impossible deadlines, there is still the patient space of This. Present. Moment. Right. Now. You have entered the third landscape of your Mothering Soul and have returned to…
Read MoreMotherQuest : The Soul Landscape of Loving Self Kindness
We know you are tired. We know your load is challenging. We know that too often life feels too hard to bear. Our wish is to wrap you in the softest of blankets and gently rub away your cares. You have stepped into the second sacred landscape of your Mothering Soul, the terrain of Loving…
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How do you honour your Ancestors without
cultural appropriation?
How do you honour your ancestors in your women’s circles? Do you call their heartbeat through your medicine drum? If so, whose lineage was your drum maker trained in and are the animal skins indigenous to your ancestral lands? Do you chant a mantra? If so, is your mantra Hindi, Sikh or Buddhist, do you…
Read MoreMother Daughter Soul Contracts : Part 1
Every child is born with a soul contract with her mother. She has a gift or teaching to give her mother, soul to soul. Some soul gifts are easy for the mother to receive they could be opening to love, stepping into power, trusting her value, sharing her wisdom. Other contracts feel like pulling teeth,…
Read MoreMother Daughter Soul Contracts : Part 2
Of all the hurts a daughter can suffer from her mother there are two that cut the deepest. The first is the betrayal of not being seen. Not being loved, appreciated or seen for our authenticity or uniqueness can be excruciating. It is a painful awakening for a daughter to realise that to be true…
Read MoreAwakening your Key to Sacred Sisterhood
Many years ago I was attending a Women’s Rite’s Retreat with the sublime Anna Davidovich and in a throwaway comment, she gifted me with one of the most profound teachings I have ever received. Her simple sentence changed my life. While the words she said are not exactly the words, I’m about to…
Read MoreThree reasons why I charge for my women’s circles and why you can too.
Before I start, I’d like to say it takes courage to hold a women’s circle. Any woman who is has heard her Spirit given call and is clear about her desire to be with women in circle and says “yes I am going to hold a women’s circle and learn and share and heal and…
Read MoreThe big test for spiritual people
It really is easy to appear spiritual on Facebook. It’s even easier on Instagram. A few beautiful photos, some great quotes, a strategic comment, a smattering of crystals, flowers or essential oils and voila! there’s your brand. Don’t worry, I’m not judging. I’m doing it too. The harder thing, if…
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